I put the word “try” in the title as realistically that is what I am doing. To say it is a done deal. Completed. Always. Well, if one of the rules I try and live by is being authentic than……try is in the title.
I am the first to admit I have lots of fault and I’m a work in progress. One thing I do try and maintain is to be authentic. I don’t think I’m someone who puts on airs or shows up as someone they are not. I received what I consider a compliment of “thank you for being candid.” That meant a lot as I am someone who will give you my honest opinion if asked. It might not be what you want to hear but it is my opinion. For me this is part of being authentic. Showing up with my faults and strengths. My whole package.
Another rule I live by is to be a cheerleader and part of your tribe. I want to support and encourage you I love to hear people’s dreams and plans. I’m someone who will listen and brain storm with you. Give me research to do and time to mull over your possibilities and opportunities. This is also something I find energizing – listening to people’s passions and if I can help them make them a reality.
Commitment. If I start something I finish it. It might not be great and definitely will be a @#$&@ first draft but it will be completed. If I sign up for a course I finish it. It might not be my thing and that is okay. Now I know, but I still will finish it out. People have put their time and energy in offering it and they deserve my commitment once I sign up to see it through. Commitment is big for me – I guess I also associate it as giving my word. If I say I will show up it is a done deal. I have a hard time with people that don’t follow through when they give their word – but that would be another post and another rant.
So my three rules I try and live by are: 1) be authentic 2) be a cheerleader (supporter of dreams) and 3) commitment (my word is extremely important to me).
What 3 rules do you live by?
You can always start now!
I 100% agree that you are the person I go to if I need an honest opinion, you are no BS’er, and I love and cherish that about you. You have made me think about what the 3 rules I try to live by are and I am going to have to reflect on this an get back to you 🙂
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Please do. I always enjoy our time and conversations. You challenge me. Thank you friend.
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I love your list!! My three rules are as follows:
Show compassion to everyone and give them a smile
Try to spread hope to those who need it most
Always keep a secret!
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Oh those are good rules to live by. I think you are doing a good job with them!!
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This really got me to thinking. Thank you!
My rules: say yes–to others and myself; honor promises; and lift communities up!
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Those are great rules to live by! Yes to honouring promises I think that is part of integrity.
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Interesting post and thankyou for all your support. My three things would be, 1. Tell the truth, if I don’t like something then I either don’t comment, I won’t see you look fantastic or your hair / jumper is lovely if I’m thinking otherwise. 2. To always try my best, to try and see things through to the end once I have started them. 3, to be a good role model for my children and help, support and encourage them
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Those are great rules to live by. Like you I finish what I start. I might not like it but if I commit I see it through. You are a role model for the rest of us in just doing it. Blogging, parenting, writer, videos – you are making it happen.
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Thankyou so very much x
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Great list! My rules are to be honest, compassionate and supportive.
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Those are great rules!
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Great rules and ones I try to live by I will also never ever break a confidence 🙂 x
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Great rules to live by. Right now my three would be. Honesty. Courage. Kindness.
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those are great rules to live by!
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Perfect words to live by. Another couple of words that I am trying to live by is to just be nice. Sometimes it’s hard, especially with certain types of people. But, you never know what’s behind it. So just be nice:).
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Be nice. Be kind. If everyone did can you imagine what the world would be like!!
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My 3 rules which I live by are Appreciation,Positivity and to be a constant learner.
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Those are great. I am a contact learner also. Thanks for visiting!
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The world needs more cheerleaders. I love this.
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You’re an awesome person, through and through. I am so glad and happy that we met in person on our trip to your neck of the woods. Something I will always remember and treasure. You’re one of a kind and I value your friendship
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OMG thank you. That was a magical evening. Pouring rain, curled up, young couple at next table. Just magical. Best part of blogging is people.
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